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  • Plays Well with Others

  • The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Relationships Is (Mostly) Wrong
  • By: Eric Barker
  • Narrated by: Roger Wayne
  • Length: 6 hrs and 55 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook
  • Categories: Business & Careers, Career Success
  • 5.0 out of 5 stars (20 ratings)

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Summary

From the author of the Wall Street Journal best seller Barking Up the Wrong Tree comes a cure-all for our increasing emotional distance and loneliness—a smart, surprising, and thoroughly entertaining guide to help build better friendships, reignite love, and get closer to others, whether you’re an extrovert or introvert, socially adept or socially anxious.

Can you judge a book by its cover? 

Is a friend in need truly a friend indeed? 

Does love conquer all? 

Is no man an island? 

In Plays Well with Others, Eric Barker dives into these questions, drawing on science to reveal the truth beyond the conventional wisdom about human relationships. Combining his compelling storytelling and humor, Barker explains what hostage negotiation techniques and marital arguments have in common, how an expert con-man lied his way into a 20-year professional soccer career, and why those holding views diametrically opposed to our own actually have the potential to become our closest, most trusted friends.

Leveraging the best evidence available—free of platitudes or magical thinking—Barker analyzes multiple sides of an issue before rendering his verdict. What he’s uncovered is surprising, counterintuitive, and timely—and will change the way you interact in the world and with those around you just when you need it most.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio. 

©2022 Eric Barker (P)2022 HarperCollins Publishers

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Interesting

As great and funny as his blog. Informative and entertaining. Can’t wait for the next book.

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A Masterpiece

love this book, it's already helped me connect with family on a deeper level.

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"Challenging!"

I thoroughly enjoyed the author’s previous bestseller, ‘Barking Up the Wrong Tree’. So, as a lifelong student of “people”, “relationships” and “what makes us tick”, I was so impatient to read Eric Barker’s new book.

I have to confess that, although I found this (audio) book thoroughly entertaining, humorous and backed by the meaningful level of research that I personally always need to enjoy a book, I also found it challenging. It provoked me to re-examine my understanding of ‘relationships’, ‘friendships’, ‘love’, ‘loneliness’, ‘communications’ … and all aspects of our interactions with others.

Well done, Eric Barker! You have ‘stopped me in my tracks’ and reminded me, as a business psychologist, that when I try to help others to lead & manage people and to deal with ‘relationships’, I still have an incredible amount to learn about myself and our relationships. Thank you!

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Excellent! Clear, helpful and true.

Well worth a listen, this book takes all the most sensible advice, explains why it works and amuses you on the way.
I recommend it to anyone… in fact it should be a set text in all schools and colleges to read and discuss.
Thanks Eric

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  • 15-05-22

Excellent book!

Another great book, listened to in one day and plan to again soon. Very good stories and practical advice.

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  • scott
  • 30-05-22

Masterpiece

I thought Barker’s first book was fabulous.. this one is more “fabulous’r”

When’s #3 coming out??

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  • FRANCIS CIANCI
  • 20-06-22

Unique

Most info is pretty obvious but worth a refresher and some interesting stories and insights

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  • Anonymous User
  • 19-06-22

One of the best

This is one of the best books I’ve read in a long time. Big fan of Mr Barker and his research and story-telling. Funny, thought provoking and potentially life changing. The end brought tears to my eyes. Can’t wait for his next book

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  • Rose Chen
  • 13-06-22

a fun book to read

It's fun to listen to this book. From time to time, it made me laugh even thought it's a book with serious content/topics.
The story about a soldier lifted and hugged the little German boy made me moved. It makes me think how we can draw the best from everybody and make the world a better place to live.
Several chapters were talking about marriage, it is interesting! You will sure feel better after listen to these chapters. Hahaha.
I recommend this book.

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  • Ken Fridley
  • 10-06-22

Very insightful!

Great book, very insightful and entertaining. Eric’s humor is an added bonus! Highly recommended to better understand human connections.

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  • amazonreviewer
  • 06-06-22

Wish I could give it 6 stars

This book is a genuine contribution. The author really has something to say and he says it extremely well. They narration is superb.

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  • Ed Mooney
  • 30-05-22

Excellent book

Eric digs in to flawed studies, historical data and how culture & time has changed friendships, marriages and being together - as well as joy and sadness, grief and degrees of happiness. Very enjoyable listen with mass appeal to all people.

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  • KnowleDJ
  • 26-05-22

my favorite book so far this year

Eric Barker did the impossible. he made his second book even better than his last. if you care about community and real solutions to bring us closer together, this book is for you.

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  • AJK
  • 25-05-22

Message we need to hear

In today's age, it's easy to get lost in the traps of 1st world life ... but the message here is one we need to hear about how that isn't what's going to fulfill us.

What he says isn't earth-shattering. It completely makes sense, and I appreciate the data he's gathered to support his conclusion. Recommend!

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  • catgirljourney
  • 24-05-22

Every human mind and spirit needs this…

Should be required reading/hearing for the bulk of us.
I love this type of thoughtful thought provoking non fiction storytelling. And I think, for the first time, that i glimpsed our species collective original success…
Thx for that EB.
(Good luck on building your tribe)