Summary

In this conversation, wedding planner Katy shares her journey into the wedding planning industry, discussing the various roles and responsibilities of a wedding planner compared to a wedding coordinator.

She highlights the importance of budgeting, the cultural differences in weddings, and the keys to a successful wedding day. Katy also delves into the distinction between marriage and wedding, emphasising the significance of communication and pre-marital counseling in maintaining a healthy relationship.

The discussion touches on modern wedding practices, traditions, and lessons learned from past experiences.

Contact info Relationship Revolutions is hosted & presented by Alan Watts "The Love Engineer" Alan is a relationship coach who uses a unique blend of NLP, coaching and Kinesiology to help & guide his clients to find, build & keep the relationship that is right for them. Alan's socials and website can be found on www.linktr.ee/LoveEngineer

Guest info

Katy Osborne

Katy takes the stress away from wedding planning.

Website - http://www.kovasupport.com

Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/katy-osborne/

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:10 The Role of a Wedding Planner

05:02 The Average Cost of a Wedding

09:22 The Unique Traditions of Indian Weddings

15:12 Keys to a Successful Marriage

20:46 Balancing Work and Family Life

24:45 The Importance of Open Communication

28:17 Advice for Couples on Their Wedding Day

31:12 Dealing with Unexpected Challenges

Takeaways

Katy fell into wedding planning after university.

A wedding planner provides peace of mind for couples.

Budgeting is crucial for a successful wedding.

Cultural differences significantly impact wedding planning.

Communication is essential in both weddings and marriages.

Pre-marital counseling can prevent future issues.

Traditions in weddings vary widely across cultures.

Enjoying the wedding day is more important than perfection.

Every wedding has its unique challenges and surprises.

Marriage requires ongoing effort and communication.

Summary

Mark Deeks, a musician and speaker, shares his journey from being a musician to using music as a tool for mental health and wellbeing. He discusses the challenges of making a living from music and the misconceptions around it. Mark also opens up about the loss of his child and the emotional and mental health journey that followed.

He highlights the importance of finding positivity and healing through music and shares how he incorporated his daughter's existence into his music.

In this conversation, Alan and Mark discuss their personal experiences with music and how it has impacted their lives. They share stories about their favourite bands and albums, as well as the role music played during challenging times.

They also touch on the evolution of relationships and the challenges of dating. Mark emphasises the importance of establishing boundaries and context in relationships, while Alan reflects on the difficulties of dating after a divorce.

Contact info

Relationship Revolutions is hosted & presented by Alan Watts "The Love Engineer"

Alan is a relationship coach who uses a unique blend of NLP, coaching and Kinesiology to help & guide his clients to find, build & keep the relationship that is right for them.

Alan's socials and website can be found on www.linktr.ee/LoveEngineer

Guest info

Mark Deeks is a speaker on music & mental health. Keynotes & workshops to improve the wellbeing of you & your people with piano, group singing & heavy metal. Often at the same time 🎹🤘🏻 And yes, his PhD is in heavy metal. Honest.

Website - www.markdeeksmusic.com

Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-deeks/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/MarkDeeksMusicNewcastle

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:21 The Challenges of Making a Living as a Musician

09:22 Using Music as Therapy for Grief and Loss

22:18 The Need for Support and Understanding for Individuals Who Have Experienced Child Loss

27:53 The Healing Power of Music

31:55 The Influence of Music on Relationships

37:15 The Evolution of Music and Changing Sound of Bands

41:09 The Love for Classic Metal and Rock

43:47 The Stress of Dating and Establishing Boundaries

Takeaways

Music is a powerful tool for mental health and wellbeing, and it can be used as a form of therapy and healing.

Making a living from music is challenging, and there are misconceptions about the financial aspects of being a musician.

The loss of a child is a traumatic experience, and it can be difficult to find the right support and language to talk about it.

Finding positivity and creating something meaningful can help in the healing process after a loss. Music can have a profound impact on our lives, providing comfort and inspiration during challenging times.

The evolution of relationships and the challenges of dating can be stressful and require the establishment of boundaries and context.

It's important not to judge a book by its cover or make assumptions about someone based on their appearance.

The early albums of bands often hold a special place in the hearts of fans, but it's important to appreciate the growth and evolution of artists over time.

Establishing a deep connection and understanding with a partner can make the dating process less daunting and more fulfilling.

Summary In this episode of Relationship Revolutions, Alan Watts interviews Joanne and Anthony Taylor, a happily married couple who also work together. They discuss the challenges and benefits of being married and working as a team. The couple met through their licensed user training in 2015 and started their business together after getting married. They emphasise the importance of communication and understanding each other's strengths and areas of growth. They also highlight the need for self-reflection and taking responsibility for one's part in the relationship. The couple shares their top three lessons: working at the relationship, effective communication, and making time for fun and play. They also recommend using psychometric profiles to gain insights into each other's personalities and navigate challenges. Self-awareness is crucial in relationships and can help navigate challenges. It is important to let go of control and share responsibilities. Communication and being on the same page are key in a relationship. Taking care of oneself and the relationship is essential for the well-being of children. Understanding oneself and working on personal growth is important for being a better partner. Teaching psychometrics in schools can have a positive impact on confidence and relationships. Social media can negatively affect relationships and comparison. Relationship classes and investing in friendships and relationships should be prioritised. Relationship Revolutions is hosted & presented by Alan Watts "The Love Engineer" Relationship & Dating coach. Alans contact info & links www.lintr.ee/LoveEngineer Guest info Anthony & Joanne Taylor Website - ⁠www.aqrconsulting.co.uk⁠ Linked in Anthony - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ant-taylor-mindsetcoach/ Joanne - https://www.linkedin.com/in/joanne-taylor-psychometric-assessments-for-talent-management/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:30 Working with Family 05:58 The Importance of Communication 08:04 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth 12:31 Prioritising Happiness in the Relationship 14:40 Maintaining Intimacy and Romance 17:33 Lessons from Previous Marriages 21:54 The Value of Psychometric Profiles 28:12 The Importance of Self-Awareness and Communication 36:52 Navigating Difficult Conversations and Prioritising the Relationship 41:52 The Potential for a Revolution in Relationships through Psychometrics Takeaways Working together as a married couple requires effective communication and understanding each other's strengths and areas of growth. Self-reflection and taking responsibility for one's part in the relationship are crucial for personal growth and a successful partnership. Making time for fun and play, as well as recognising and appreciating each other's efforts, helps maintain a strong connection. Using psychometric profiles can provide valuable insights into each other's personalities and facilitate better communication and understanding. Self-awareness is crucial in navigating challenges and sharing responsibilities in a relationship. Communication and being on the same page are key in maintaining a healthy relationship. Taking care of oneself and the relationship is essential for the well-being of children. Understanding oneself and working on personal growth leads to being a better partner. Teaching psychometrics in schools can have a positive impact on confidence and relationships. Social media can negatively affect relationships through comparison. Investing in friendships and relationships should be prioritised.