Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli

By: Dr Randall Bixby and Lesli Lamb-Bixby
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  • Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli: Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli is a groundbreaking podcast hosted by renowned authors and family experts, Dr. Randall Bixby and his wife, Lesli Lamb-Bixby aimed at helping families transform their lives and in the process, transform culture. Drawing inspiration from their bestselling book, "The Family Legacy: Shaping Culture from the Inside Out" written by Dr. Randall Bixby, this podcast delves deep into the core problems facing families today, offering practical tools for parents to quickly put into practice that will transform their family as they learn to do family the way God designed. Randy and Lesli, a dynamic husband-and-wife team, bring their vast knowledge and experience to guide listeners on a transformative journey to build stronger, healthier, and more connected families. They understand what families are facing today. They have a blended family and have experienced the highs and lows that family has to offer. They have experienced serious brokenness and verifiable healing that gives them the authority to share what they’ve learned with others. They understand the hopelessness, the fear, the grief of thinking, “It’s too late for my family” or “How am I ever going to change this…” With their warm and relatable personalities, they create a safe and engaging space where listeners can learn, reflect, and take practical steps towards positive change. Each episode of Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli is a treasure trove of wisdom, infused with personal anecdotes, research-backed insights, practical tools, and expert interviews. The podcast covers a wide range of topics essential to modern families, including effective communication, parenting, marriage, creating family traditions, growing in emotional intelligence, teaching true identity, resolving conflict, forgiveness, divorce, single parent families, blended families, family legacy, Family Coat of Arms, and creating a healthy family culture. All from a Biblical worldview. They employ experiential learning exercises from a Biblical worldview that give families an experience that drives the learning deep and equips children to use these same exercises with their children and grandchildren resulting in a generational impact and lasting legacy. At the heart of the podcast is the transformative power of doing family by God’s original design. Randy and Lesli firmly believe that doing family God’s way builds not only individual lives but also the broader culture. They explore how the values, beliefs, and traditions passed down from generation to generation can profoundly impact society as a whole. Through thought-provoking discussions, they inspire listeners to intentionally build their families as God designed, empowering them to be agents of positive change in their communities and the world. Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli goes beyond theory, offering practical tools and strategies that listeners can implement in their daily lives. Each episode concludes with actionable takeaways and challenges designed to encourage listeners to apply the insights shared. From simple communication exercises to creative ways of teaching identity and fostering connection, from a blueprint for navigating family crises to maximizing the legacy imprint on a regular family venture (vacation), Randy and Lesli provide a roadmap for families to thrive in an ever-changing world. Guest experts and real-life stories are an integral part of the podcast. Randy and Lesli bring in thought leaders, authors, coaches, ministers, educators, and other specialists to share their expertise and shed light on various family-related challenges. Listeners gain valuable insights from these conversations, expanding their perspectives and finding inspiration in the experiences of others. Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli is a podcast that transcends traditional family discussions. It is a Global movement called, The Family Reformation Project that seeks to reshape the cultural fabric by focusing on the core unit of society – the family. By empowering individuals through The Family School, Family Conferences, Family Encounters, and Family Coaching, Randy and Lesli aim to create a ripple effect, fostering stronger communities and ultimately influencing the world at large. Whether you are a parent, a grandparent, a spouse, or someone passionate about family dynamics, this podcast is a vital source of thinking that will make you better. To learn more about how to transform your family, access our resources, take our classes, or work with a Family Coach, go to www.thefamilyreformationproject.com where you will learn more about The Family School, Family Legacy Conferences for churches and organizations, Family Legacy Encounters (for a single family), working with a Family Coach, and the TRIBE- families committed to doing life with a community of people who are choosing to do family as God ...
    2023
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Episodes
  • The Power of Gratitude! Happy Thanksgiving

    The Power of Gratitude! Happy Thanksgiving
    Nov 28 2024

    The Power of Gratitude!- Happy Thanksgiving from all of us here at Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli and The Family Reformation Project!

    Disccover the POWER of Gratitude in your family in this Thanksgiving Day Special Podcast.

    To learn more about our The Family Reformation Project and The Family School click HERE

    Join the FRP TRIBE an online community of families who love Jesus and are committed to doing family as God designed... together. click HERE.

    If you believe in our mission at FRP- Help us restore families to God's design by giving your best financial gift HERE. THANKYOU!

    Learn about how the FRP is helping families heal, grow and thrive through The Family School and Raising up Family Coaches based on the insights found in the best selling book by Dr Randall Bixby - The Family Legacy- Shaping Culture from the Inside Out... How to heal your family, live your legacy and shape culture in the process.

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    To learn more about our The Family Reformation Project and The Family School click HERE

    Also receive today's free download tool for listening prayer called the FAMILY SOCIAL COVENANT TOOL and learn how to create a healthy culture of trust, love, support, fun, and safety in your family.

    You can get FRP Core Essentials Digital Bundle HERE - (Book, Workbook, Video E-Course)
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    31 mins
  • Love and Money: Tackling Financial Stress in Families

    Love and Money: Tackling Financial Stress in Families
    Nov 26 2024
    Welcome To Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli. "Today, we’re discussing one of the leading causes of stress in marriage—money—and how couples can work together to overcome financial challenges." Quick fact or statistic: About 64% of Americans cite inflation as a major challenge, while financial strain often leads to marital discord and higher divorce rates Scott Free CliniDid you know financial issues are one of the top reasons couples argue?"Preview the episode structure: common causes of financial stress, its impact on relationships, and practical solutions for managing money as a team. Join the FRP TRIBE, an online community of families who love Jesus and are committed to doing family as God Designed... together. Segment 1: Understanding Financial Stress in Marriage Definition and Signs:What does financial stress look like? Examples: frequent arguments, avoiding money talks, or feeling overwhelmed by bills. Why It's Common in Marriage:Differing money habits (spender vs. saver). Not in agreement, making financial decisions as one.External pressures (student loans, childcare costs, medical bills).Lack of communication about financial goals or priorities. Share a relatable anecdote or listener story illustrating financial stress in action. Segment 2: The Emotional and Relational Impact of Financial Stress Emotional Effects:Anxiety, resentment, guilt, or feelings of inadequacy. Lack of trust and security…. FEAR - Relational Consequences:Increased arguments and tension.Lack of intimacy due to stress or feelings of disconnection.Power dynamics: when one partner earns significantly more or less. Example: “One partner feels controlled because they have to ask for money, while the other feels burdened by financial responsibility.” Segment 3: Common Money Mistakes Couples Make Avoiding Money Conversations: Ignoring finances until there’s a problem. Living Beyond Means: Overspending on homes, vacations, or lifestyle to "keep up." Not Having a Budget or Plan: Operating without clear boundaries or goals. Individual vs. Shared Accounts Tension: Miscommunication about what’s “yours,” “mine,” and “ours.” Failing to Save or Invest for the Future: Lack of emergency funds or retirement planning. Segment 4: Solutions for Managing Financial Stress Together Open and Honest Communication: Regular “money meetings” to discuss goals, bills, and progress.Share feelings about money without judgment. Create a Joint Budget: List income, expenses, and savings goals together.Use budgeting apps or tools to stay organized. Define Financial Roles: Decide who manages which aspects (e.g., paying bills vs. long-term planning). Set Short- and Long-Term Goals: Examples: Paying off debt, saving for a house, or planning a dream vacation.Celebrate small wins together. Emergency Fund and Debt Reduction: Save at least 3–6 months of expenses.Pay down high-interest debts with a snowball or avalanche method. Seek Professional Guidance: Financial advisors or counselors for tailored advice.Use therapy if money issues are deeply affecting the relationship. Agree on Spending Limits: Set a threshold for purchases that require joint approval. Our Solution: Equipping our family with actual tools on how to steward our hearts and teach our children how to steward there’s. PI tool, Fact-Story Tool…Social Coveneant. Conclusion and Call to Action Recap: Financial stress is challenging but manageable with teamwork, communication, and planning.Encourage listeners to take one step today: start a budget, schedule a money meeting, or talk openly about financial goals.Share a success story of a couple who overcame financial stress.Invite listener questions or stories for a future Q&A episode.Tease the next episode topic: “How to Build Wealth Together as a Couple.”Closing message: “Love and money don’t have to clash. With the right tools and teamwork, you can thrive together.”
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    39 mins
  • Broken Communication: Bridging the Gap

    Broken Communication: Bridging the Gap
    Nov 22 2024

    The Top 10 Challenges that Families Face: Poor communication is one of the most common issues. Couples may misunderstand each other or struggle to express needs and feelings openly, leading to resentment and arguments.

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    Here is what it looks like when there is broken communication in the Family.

    • Examples of broken communication:
      • Silent treatment.
      • Constant arguments without resolution.
      • Talking past each other or feeling unheard.
      • Assumptions - thinking you know

    Common Causes of Broken Communication

    1. Unspoken Expectations:
    2. Assumptions
      • Discuss how unmet or unclear expectations lead to resentment.
      • Example: Partner assumes the other "should know" their needs.
    3. Emotional Baggage:
      • How past experiences (from childhood or previous relationships) impact communication styles.
    4. Stress and External Pressures:
      • Work, finances, or parenting can shift focus away from meaningful conversations.
    5. Differences in Communication Styles:
      • Verbal vs. nonverbal communicators; introvert vs. extrovert dynamics.
    6. Tech and Distractions:
      • Over-reliance on phones or screens instead of face-to-face dialogue

    The Impact of Broken Communication (5 minutes)

    • Explore emotional and relational consequences:
      • Increased misunderstandings and conflicts.
      • Emotional distance and lack of intimacy.
      • Erosion of trust over time.
    1. Empathetic Listening:
      • Practice repeating back what you hear to ensure understanding.
      • “Seek to understand before being understood.”
    2. Set Aside Dedicated Time:
      • Create a “check-in” routine free of distractions.
    3. Use “I” Statements:
      • Reduce blame by expressing feelings without attacking your partner.
      • Example: “I feel hurt when you don’t respond to me” instead of “You never listen!”
    4. Body Language and Tone Awareness:
      • Nonverbal cues often matter more than words.
    5. Clarify Expectations:
      • Regularly discuss roles, responsibilities, and emotional needs.
    6. Pause During Conflict:
      • Step away to cool down instead of escalating. Return to the issue with a clear mind.
    7. Seek Professional Help:
      • Couples therapy or communication workshops as an investment in your relationship.
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    34 mins

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