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The Game of Desire

5 Surprising Secrets to Dating with Dominance - and Getting What You Want

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The Game of Desire

By: Shannon Boodram
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Women: gain control and confidence in your love lives and find the relationship you want with this modern, life-changing guide from the certified sex educator, intimacy expert, and YouTube personality.

For younger generations, dating is a complicated mystery. Apps like Tinder and Bumble are supposed to foster connection but instead serve as a reminder of how painfully single we are.

Certified sexologist and intimacy coach Shan Boodram - the most sought-after sex educator on the internet - is about to change all that. In this essential how-to guide, she addresses the realities of life today - when the rules of love and attraction are fluid - and teaches a group of young women how to become master daters in just 60 days.

It starts with you. Shan makes clear that love and self-discovery go hand in hand - your dating life is just as much about you as it is about other people. She challenges you to look inside yourself for what you want out of a partner, a relationship, and, most important, yourself. Once you figure out what you want from dating, she shows you exactly how to get it. The Game of Desire empowers you to take the lead, learn your strengths, and identify and correct your weaknesses, all the while getting inspired watching a group of women learn how to succeed in today’s dating pool.

While many books tell women why they can’t get a date, Shan teaches you the skills and techniques necessary to take charge in today’s competitive and often confusing dating scene, providing the tools essential to attract - and retain - the partner(s) you want. From learning love languages to debunking dating myths, she helps women build knowledge and confidence.

Featuring conversational case studies, comprehensive facts about the psychology of sex and romance, and expert insight into sex culture, and written with her trademark humor and charm, The Game of Desire is a must for all of Shan’s fans and for every woman struggling to feel loved and desired.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2019 Shannon Boodram (P)2019 HarperAudio
Love, Dating & Attraction Personal Success Psychology Witty Young Adult
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Insightful and delightful

I am a big fan of Shans so I feel honoured to read these experiences

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Absolutely Love! - Educational Fun & Life Changing

Amazing insights and techniques to understand yourself AND communicate with potential playmates! 😍 Describing details of the lovely ladies in the book was a great addition; Made it so much easier to understand the advice and was very encouraging to see others honest reactions to the program. 😌 Shan, this is an amazing project and thank you so much for creating this. 🙏🏼💕😘 (Can't wait to re read it and take notes! 😊)

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Meaningful read

I loved this book, Shan gives you an easy to follow guide to introspection and plenty of science-backed information and tips on everything else. These are ‘taught’ through telling the story of her real life case study with several women and their dating (and life) journeys.
Definitely a must read, and you MUST follow it up with the workbook on her website. I’ve shared it with family and friends and everyone has had ‘aha’ moments about themselves, even people who’ve been happily married for 30 years. It is especially useful for pinpointing and identifying things about yourself you perhaps just had a vague feeling about before. My core takeaway from the book is that once you have these realisations, only then do you know what you’re looking for and how to articulate what you want, or even just be able to explain yourself clearly to others.
A big fan of Shan and now Jared’s podcast too as a result of this book!

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So good imma buy twice

I’m in a 6 year relationship and when I tell you this has got me feeling so confident within my relationship and just I’m general. This has helped me with job interviews and public speaking and just plain putting myself out there. I’m naturally an anxious homebody and I’ve just moved cities so naturally some of these things don’t come easy to me but I relate so much to Pricilla, being a young mum myself (also and infp) and found tangible stages of growth to align with in her story. Well done Shan 👑👑👑

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Thank you Shan!

The flow and the stories kept me hooked every single free minute I had. I think I'm now off to listen to it again - with long pauses - to do all the activities :)

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Shan Boody I Will Always Love You

loved the concept, the highlight of self love that it gives you and the practical applications (although aimed at women) are a stark reminder to have self confidence in 2020 dating.

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Everything you need

i absolutely loved this audiobook. i need to get the hard copy to have in my house. I really enjoyed the journeys each person took and I loved all the tips and trick to try. Now i just need to do the work for myself.

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I love how this book was focused on self discovery and acceptance. It opened my eyes to the root cause of my issues which was not loving myself . After finishing this book i feel like a changed person and I am ready to use these skills to better my self and future choices. Thank you shan for sharing this beautiful piece of work .I hope you all the best ❤



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Easy listen

Some good point made, easy to follow. Makes you feel ready to make positive changes.

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What a book!!

This book was recommended to me by a friend and I absolutely loved it. I never understood why I was always overlooked and somebody else was chosen... Well that was the story in my head.
It's wonderful and refreshing to listen to a story about real women and learn how to get the love I deserve. Thank you so much

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