The Success Myth, has been taking the world by storm since it was published in 2023 and is now, officially, one of my favourite books of all time (if you haven’t already got a copy, treat yourself to one today!) It is such a powerful book and one that I honestly believe everyone needs to read, because, whether you realise it or not, we are all deeply entrenched in beliefs around success that are keeping us trapped and holding us back from living the lives we really want to be living.

And in today’s episode you’ll start to unpack your own beliefs around success, to see which ones might have been holding you back and how to choose new measures of success that will actually help you to thrive.

So, hit play and let’s dive in!

Questions to explore:

When you were growing up how did you view success?

What were you raised to believe success looked like?

What did a successful person look like to you? What did they have? What had they achieved?

Where did these images of success come from?

How do you think that impacted on you growing up?

What did it make you think you should be, that you should have, that you should do in life?

Did it have an impact on the choices you made?

Is it still having an impact on you today?

Do you compare yourself to those measures of success? And in particular, have you ever found yourself falling short and feeling bad because you haven't achieved that kind of success?

If you were given permission to create a whole new set of rules for what success looks like in our society, what would those measures of success be?

This year, for me, success looks like………………………… (fill in the blank)

Have a go and let me know how you get on!

And then I’ll see you back here next week for the next episode in the series with Tamu Thomas, author of Women Who Work Too Much.

See you then!

X Selina

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