Hey, hey, beautiful people! Welcome back to another episode of Rerouting with Dope Melody, where we dive deep into self-love, growth, and rerouting life's unexpected paths. I'm Y'all's Mel, and today I'm going to share something deeply personal and transformative.

I recently had the honor of attending a woman's retreat called the Pursuing Me Experience in the Washington DC area, where I'm originally from. Shout out to PG County, Maryland, and my dear friend Taye Pitts, our beautiful host. Let me tell you, this experience was nothing short of life-changing.

The Pursuing Me Experience was an educational and interactive journey into the depths of who we really are. It wasn't always comfortable; there were moments where things got tough, and we had to dig into those uncomfortable truths. Being vulnerable with a room full of strong women was like standing naked in front of a mirror, but that's where the magic happens—in vulnerability and truth.

Watching these women bravely share their stories, their pain, and their dreams was so raw and real. The connections we built and the support we gave each other felt like medicine for the soul. We did a lot of crying, but we all walked away feeling lighter, having dropped the heavy weight of expectations and discovering a deeper understanding of ourselves.

During the retreat, I had the opportunity to network with some truly amazing women. It was incredible to see how supportive everyone was, not just for each other's growth but for each other's ventures. I'm proud to say I introduced many of them to Melodic Lipsticks and sold quite a few! It wasn't just about the lipstick; it was about confidence, empowerment, and feeling beautiful inside and out.

Looking back on the entire experience, I'm filled with gratitude for Tay and the Pursuing Me experience. This retreat wasn't just about self-discovery; it was about sisterhood. It reminded me that we are never alone on this journey. When women come together in truth and love, there is nothing we can't achieve.

To my fellow retreat attendees, thank you for your vulnerability and strength, and thank you for supporting Melodic Lipsticks. To anyone out there wondering if they should take that step towards self-discovery, I encourage you to find your tribe, dig deep, and give yourself permission to grow.

Thank you for tuning in to Rerouting with Dope Melody. I hope my experience inspires you to seek out spaces that challenge, support, and help you grow. Check out Melodic Lipsticks at MelodicLips.com. Keep shining your light because the world needs your unique beauty. Until next time, keep rerouting with love and purpose. Spread love like confetti!

Shout out to my sister Tay and all the beautiful ladies that attended. Mwah.

Hey beautiful souls, welcome back to another episode of Rerouting with Dope Melody. I'm your host Mel, and today we're diving into part three of our series on finding joy and healing alone. If you've been with me for the first two parts, you know we've talked about embracing solitude, building healing habits, and finding joy in our own company. But today, we want to take it a step further and explore how to continue this journey until God sends the right people into your life.

Let's start by talking about the concept of divine timing. Sometimes we want things to happen on our schedule, but God knows exactly what we need and when we need it. Trusting his timing means understanding that your season of solitude is not a punishment, but a preparation. It's a time for you to heal, grow, and become the person you're meant to be so that when the right person does come into your life, you're ready to receive them with an open heart.

This period of solitude is also a time to deepen your relationship with yourself and with God. Spend time in prayer or meditation, asking for guidance, clarity, and peace. Lean into your faith, trusting that God is working behind the scenes, orchestrating everything for your good. When you align yourself with his will, you'll find peace and start to see your solitude not as loneliness, but as sacred time with yourself and your creator.

It's also important to remember that the people God has for you won't just fill a void; they'll enhance your life. They will complement your journey, not complete it. This is why it's crucial to use this time alone wisely. Invest in yourself, pursue your passions, and continue healing. The more whole and fulfilled you are on your own, the more you'll attract the kind of relationships that are healthy, balanced, and supportive.

Let's talk about how to keep your heart open while you wait. Sometimes when we've been hurt or disappointed in the past, it's easy to close ourselves off. But healing and enjoying being alone doesn't mean shutting people out. It means learning to be selective, to trust your intuition, and to recognize the difference between those who are meant to be in our lives and those who are not. Practice gratitude for the people who are already in your life, and acknowledge the relationships that are already bringing you joy.

Another way to prepare for the right people is to focus on the qualities you want in those relationships. Get clear on these qualities and then ask yourself if you are embodying these traits. This kind of self-reflection not only prepares you for future relationships but also helps you become the kind of person you want to attract.

Lastly, trust the process. Trust your season of solitude and know that it has a purpose. Trust that God is working on your behalf even when you can't see it. And most importantly, trust that the right people will come into your life at the right time, and they will definitely be worth the wait.

As we close out this third part of our series, remember that being alone is not a curse; it's a calling. It's time for you to heal, grow, and prepare for the incredible people God is going to send into your life. Embrace this season, trust divine timing, and know that everything is unfolding exactly as it should.

Thank you for joining me on this three-week journey. If this episode resonated with you, please follow, share, and comment. Let's keep walking this path together, trusting God's plan. Until next time, stay blessed, stay dope, and keep rerouting. Remember, God's got you and the right people will find you when the time is right. Spread love like confetti, guys. Peace.

Hey beautiful souls, welcome back to another episode of Rerouting with Dope Melody. I'm your host Mel, and today we're diving into part two of our journey on finding joy and healing while being alone. If you missed part one, no worries, you can go back and catch that episode. For now, let's continue exploring how solitude can be your most powerful tool for growth, peace, and happiness.

In our last episode, we talked about the importance of embracing solitude, giving yourself the grace to heal, and discovering joy in your own company. Today, we take it a step further by discussing how to deepen that joy, build habits that support your healing, and maintain this sense of peace when life gets challenging.

One of the most beautiful aspects of being alone is the freedom to design your life exactly how you want it. This is your chance to create routines and habits that not only support your healing but also enhance your happiness. From curating a peaceful morning routine to practicing affirmations and journaling, there are many ways to fill your life with calm and purpose.

Healing isn't always easy. There will be tough days, but resilience is key. The more you work on your resilience, the stronger it gets. Remember to celebrate your progress, no matter how small, and don't be afraid to reach out for support when you need it. Solitude doesn't mean isolation.

As we wrap up part two of our series on finding joy and healing alone, remember that healing is a journey, not a destination. Embrace solitude, build supportive habits, and celebrate your progress. Thank you for joining me on this episode of Rerouting with Dope Melody. If this episode resonated with you, please follow, share, and leave a comment. Let's keep this journey going, one step at a time. Stay blessed, stay dope, and keep rerouting. Don't forget to spread love like confetti – it's free. Have a good night.