In the wake of a tumultuous election season and a world brimming with uncertainty, how do we protect our peace, foster love, and build connections that matter?

This week we’re joined by the brilliant Shantira Jackson—writer, comedian, and voice of resilience—as we dive into navigating relationships, identity, and self-care amidst world turmoil. Shantira opens up about finding joy and love in the chaos, leaning into her community, and prioritizing her well-being in a world that often feels overwhelming. Together, we unpack the impact of politics on identity and relationships, the value of intentional self-care, and why this is the time to refocus on personal growth and Black love. Plus, Shantira shares hilarious anecdotes, insightful advice, and powerful reminders of what it means to thrive while staying true to yourself.

Whether you're navigating dating in uncertain times or rediscovering your own power, this episode is here to inspire and uplift.

Our guest today is Shantira Jackson (she/her):
Shantira Jackson (she/her) is a writer, comedian, and creative powerhouse known for her work on Big Mouth, Human Resources, Amber Ruffin Show, and the Saved by the Bell reboot. A Florida native, Shantira brings a sharp wit and profound insights to her work, which often centers on social commentary, Black joy, and embracing authenticity. When she’s not writing for hit shows, she’s channeling her energy into self-care, community building, and finding the best churros around.

Follow Shantira:
Watch Big Mouth Season 7, Human Resources Season 2, and her episodes of Saved by the Bell Reboot on Peacock.

Credits:

• Host/Producer: James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm

• Producer/Editor: Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays

• Closing Music: Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

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Ever felt ready to call it quits on dating apps, exhausted from swiping through red flags and fleeting connections? This week, we’re diving deep into the dating trenches with Marvel's own Ray Lowe, who found her person after almost giving up on online dating. From identifying red flags to recognizing the surprising green lights, Ray’s story is all about resilience and self-growth. She shares the faith it took to keep looking, the personal work she did to prepare for real connection, and how reconnecting with her spirituality helped her know what she truly wanted in a relationship. Plus, we unpack why sometimes, finding the love you deserve means being ready for a ‘boring,’ steady love—in the best way.

Our guest today is Ray Lowe (she/her): Ray Lowe (she/her) is a Marvel event host and producer with a knack for storytelling, style, and embracing all things geek culture. Based in New Orleans, Ray is a former fashion editor turned stylist whose love for creativity and comic culture makes her the ultimate professional geek. When she’s not on the red carpet or hosting for Marvel, you can find her collecting vintage fashion, curating her wardrobe, and caring for her beloved cats. Ray's journey through dating apps and her fresh take on love and resilience bring a grounded perspective to today’s conversation. IG: @rayasunshiine

Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm
Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays
Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

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Have you ever felt like you were cosplaying in your own life, playing different roles in your relationships, and ignoring the red flags in the process? Today, we’re joined by the incredibly talented Judy Stephens, producer, co-creator of the Women of Marvel podcast, and author of Cosplay the Marvel Way. From her experience navigating cosplay culture to advocating for diverse voices at Marvel, Judy shares how dressing up as superheroes can help you uncover your authentic self. She opens up about dating in the cosplay community (is mixing your passions with your love life a good idea)? Plus Judy spills the tea on red and green flags you can spot based on someone’s cosplay choices.

Our guest today is Judy Stephens (she/her): a cosplay producer, co-creator of the Women of Marvel podcast, and co-author of Cosplay the Marvel Way. You can follow Judy on Instagram and TikTok at @omgdjjudy and check out her latest projects, including her upcoming book Super Visible: The Story of the Women of Marvel.

Credits:

• Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm

• Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays

• Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

Connect with us:

• Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod

• Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com

• TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod

• Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast

• Facebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere Community

• Checkout video clips on YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel

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KEYWORDS: dating, red flags everywhere, LGBTQ, Black podcast, relationships, relationship advice