In this deeply personal and heartfelt episode of The Best Couple Podcast, we explore the journey of breaking free from the toxic expectations of family, culture, and society. From growing up as a "good Indian son" and dealing with the blueprint imposed on us at birth, to feeling like the black sheep in a family that didn’t live by its own rules, we unpack the struggles of seeking validation, being a parentified child, and navigating generational trauma.

We cover:

• The exhaustion of always putting others first.
• How boundaries and self-acceptance lead to freedom.
• The struggles of being taken for granted and unappreciated.
• Discovering your identity outside the roles assigned to you.
• Mindfulness, self-love, and breaking the cycle of people-pleasing.
• The pain of realizing family can be toxic, greedy, or neglectful.
• Accepting yourself and finding worth beyond societal and family expectations.

This episode is for anyone who has ever felt lost, unworthy, or misunderstood — and who’s ready to reclaim their identity. Join us as we share our experiences, insights, and lessons learned in the journey of letting go and choosing to live authentically.

In this episode, we dive deep into the realities of marriage and family life, exploring the struggles couples face as they balance their roles as partners and parents. We discuss how the spark in marriage can fade if not nurtured and how many couples prioritize work, children, or even social obligations over their relationship. We reflect on our own journey, from feeling like we were still dating in our early years to the challenges of raising kids without much support.

As parents, we expected our children would share family values, stepping in to help and spend time with us as they grew older. But, as life unfolded differently than we hoped, we’ve had to adapt our mindset and redefine what family means to us. We share personal stories of insecurity, trust, and resilience—how even the toughest circumstances brought us closer and taught us to prioritize each other.

Whether you're navigating marriage with children, learning to open up about your own vulnerabilities, or feeling disappointed by unmet family expectations, this episode is about choosing each other over everything else. We explore the importance of putting in continuous effort, learning from every setback, and finding that your spouse can truly be your best friend and greatest strength.

In this episode, we dive into how men and women navigate conflicts in relationships, from handling arguments in public to the impact of friends giving one-sided advice. We explore why some friends can be toxic to your relationship and discuss how we’ve learned to set boundaries and protect our peace over time. Plus, we share real-life experiences like dealing with frustrating service (including some "Karen" moments) and how we’ve stopped people-pleasing. We also talk about growth, resilience, and finding peace in life’s challenges—don’t miss it!