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The Reflect-On Podcast

By: Kevin P Murphy
  • Summary

  • Perhaps one of the largest victims to our rapidly changing ecosystems is that of reflection. Reflection on fears, reflection on feelings, reflection on what truly matters. Reflection on your dreams and reflections on your purpose. Reflection on who you want to become and reflections on how you want to leave this world. Take a listen to hear inspiring stories, traumas, lessons, and reflections with your host, Kevin P Murphy, who’s goal it is to improve lives, grow actionable potential, and create more joy.

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  • #15: Yahaya Baruwa: Embracing your Struggles, Remembering your Freedoms, and Never Giving up on your Dreams
    Jun 23 2024

    "I was free to create. There was no roadmap...And you just take risks."

    Though being in the relative middle-class, Yahaya Baruwa grew up in an impoverished part of Nigeria where materialism was scarce, but creativity was not. Whether it was creating toy cars out of bottle caps and milk cans, or using plastic bags or socks for soccer balls, Yahaya chooses to feel grateful for being so free in his early life. And he believes that these freedoms from childhood allowed him to create, to take risks, and to trust himself to do what is right along the way, which correlated highly to writing his own book and starting his own publishing company in his early twenties.

    Yahaya opens up about the struggles of his journey to writing his book - Struggles of a Dreamer - with intentions of inspiring one million people. What was once a disapproval from his own father became one of the biggest catalysts to his creations. Yahaya also reveals why he wrote in secrecy, how he left home with no plans and learned one of the most important lessons of his life, and why earning his first million dollars came as a complete surprise.

    In a story of taking risks, we learn through Yahaya that perhaps the biggest risk of all is not pursuing your own dreams and freedoms. But not merely for yourself. Rather for the service you provide and the people you will inspire to chase their dreams along the way.

    To be more inspired, please consider Yahaya's book; Struggles of a Dreamer: A Battle Between a Dream and Tradition. It can also be found on the Indigo website.

    To support Yahaya and learn more, please visit https://strugglesofadreamer.ca/

    Thank you for your attention and interest! Enjoy this episode and please share it with those you think it may help.

    @kevin.p.murphy on Instagram or LEARN MORE HERE

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • #14: Jonathan Viscosi - Disassociating Outcomes with Identity and how to Achieve your Highest Performance with Self-Regulation
    Jun 9 2024

    "The times where I didn't get the outcome that I wanted, and I sensed those were missing...Those are the hardest moments to accept."

    Jonathan Viscosi is a professional football (soccer) player that has lived his childhood dreams in ways he never actually envisioned. From playing locally in Ontario to representing his country during collegiate years, to playing in Europe and obtaining a Master's Degree in Emotional Psychology, his journey possesses a myriad of learnings that go beyond the academic and athletic realms.

    And yet, some of Jon's biggest successes are those where no trophy - or external glory - were involved.

    Jon reflects on the most rewarding parts of his professional career before sharing how one of his most impactful moments came at a peak when nearly nothing went according to plan. He also contrasts identity and outcomes and what the best solution may be to separate the two for optimal performance.

    We dive deeper into Jon's academic research on how high performance can be achieved through self-regulation and the Multi-States Theory. And as the reflections continue, he shares how it's more than self-talk in addition to simple tactics that allow one to achieve their best performances in sports, and in life.

    To view some of Jon's powerful published work and blog posts, visit this link.

    To support Jon and his journey, or if you're interested in obtaining high-performance coaching, visit

    Jon's Socials

    Thank you for your attention and interest! Enjoy this episode and please share it with those you think it may help.

    @kevin.p.murphy on Instagram or LEARN MORE HERE

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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • #13: John Barry - Letting go for Better Results, Chasing Service (not Trophies), and Why Challenging Yourself is a Key to Life
    May 26 2024

    "One thing that reflects life in cycling is that once you stop pedaling, you'll stop."

    John Barry is a small-town-born entrepreneur that gains his biggest fulfilments in life through spending time with family, providing dedicated care to his clients, and living a life in purpose for something greater than himself. By following his early childhood aspirations and entering in as a third-generation real estate representative, John learned what in means to strive for a state of constant, never-ending improvement. As he reflects on his countless professional awards and career accolades, we discuss the "chase" that so many have for those awards and the fallacy behind it.

    In this episode we explore just how important the little things in life, how and why challenging yourself is so critical, and understanding when it makes sense to acknowledge perfectionism to "let off the reins", amongst several other ideas.

    Much of this is centred in the lessons John has learned from his cycling and fundraising days. To date, he has raised well over $100,000 in support of cancer research and initiatives by enduring long distance cycling challenges. His most recent one being the 7 Days in May, where he bikes nearly 1,200km over 7 days for pancreatic cancer. Should you have any funds or time to spare, please consider checking out more of John's story as 100% of the proceeds go directly to fund research.

    To learn more about John's journey and to support his initiatives, you can visit THIS LINK for more information.

    Thank you for your attention and interest! Enjoy this episode and please share it with those you think it may help.

    @kevin.p.murphy on Instagram or LEARN MORE HERE

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    44 mins

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