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  • 8 Rules of Love

  • How to Find it, Keep it, and Let It Go
  • By: Jay Shetty
  • Narrated by: Jay Shetty
  • Length: 10 hrs and 10 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (165 ratings)

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Summary

The author of the No.1 Sunday Times bestseller Think Like a Monk offers a revelatory guide to every stage of romance, drawing on ancient wisdom and new science.

Nobody sits us down and teaches us how to love. So we’re often thrown into relationships with nothing but romance movies and pop culture to help us muddle through. Until now.

Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love better than ever before. He shares insights on how to win or lose together, how to define love, and why you don’t break in a break-up. Inspired by Vedic wisdom and modern science, he tackles the entire relationship cycle, from first dates to moving in together to breaking up and starting over. And he shows us how to avoid falling for false promises and unfulfilling partners.

By living Jay Shetty’s eight rules, we can all love ourselves, our partner, and the world better than we ever thought possible.

©2023 Jay Shetty (P)2023 HarperCollins Publishers

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A fulfilling life begins and ends with how you show up in your relationships. With that said, this could be the most valuable book you read this year.
Dr Julie Smith, Clinical Psychologist and #1 Sunday Times Bestselling Author of Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?

8 Rules of Love guides you on your quest for love as you build a foundation first with yourself, then with others and, finally, with the world. Jay's teachings and writings inspire and empower you to navigate love and to live life with compassion, humour and the belief that anything is possible.
Jennifer Lopez

This is the first and last book anyone needs to read on the topic of love and relationships. A truly complete, demystifying, challenging and captivating journey through modern love, its inevitable human challenges and its unavoidable human answers. One of the most important books I’ve ever read.
Steven Bartlett

Jay’s gift is to teach and empower. This book not only helps us gain a better understanding and appreciation of love, but assists us in achieving greater awareness of the self and the needs of those around us.
Deepika Padukone

Jay Shetty has created an excellent guide to rising in love to joy and fulfilment. The usual falling in love is a mask for self-importance; this is love as the ultimate truth in creation. The rules of love he explores will take you on a path of self-discovery towards new levels of awareness – the only means to blissful relationships.
Deepak Chopra

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Insightful. Good for learning how to communicate and with your partner and to support each other.

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Great read!

This is such an insightful book. I love how it is broken into the 8 rules & there are set activities & meditations within the different rules. Very thought provoking - thank you Jay ♡

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Love means much more than I thought!

What a great way to talk about love.
Sometimes the book focus on different stages of love but there’s always something to learn even if it’s to share with someone else.
Love this!

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Listened to it in 2 nights

Great insights and inspiration. jay Shetty never disappoints and his voice is smooth and calming.

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Lovely audiobook!

Really enjoyed this audiobook, it was also nice to have the actual book alongside particularly for the exercises! Another great work by Jay Shetty!

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Love it, thank you Jay! 🙏🏼

I will work on spreading my love every day, on everyone. I used to believe that I need a romantic love in order to use all the love I feel and I was desperately searching for it. Now I know better, thanks to you Jay. ♥️

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Thanks for sharing

Very well expressed view of love starting with where we are and opening up to the entire world

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Needed to love me and this is a great start

I have listened to Jay’s podcasts and YouTube’s for over a year, I feel lonely at times and he always picks me up with his words. I have listed to the audible 2 times now and I feel like this is a great start for me to learn to love myself.

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Loved it

I was quite sceptical at the start but loved every bit of it. Reminds you of what matters and helps to stay grounded. Will definitely re listen.

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The best book on live

Fully in love with this book!! So precious and so inspiring 🙏🏼♥️ Thank you for sharing your wisdom

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