• Ep.#24 Gay Fathers - Building Relationships Beyond Hookups. Importance of Community in LGBTQ Lives
    Oct 15 2024

    In this episode of 'Come In Inside Out', hosts Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the importance of community engagement, health awareness initiatives like Movember, and the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals today. They share personal stories, listener feedback, and insights on navigating relationships and family dynamics while coming out. The conversation also touches on the political landscape affecting LGBTQ rights and the importance of supporting one another in both personal and professional realms.

    Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.

    There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

    MOVEMBER donations links:

    How do I donate?

    1. Copy the link for your preferred currency

    2. Choose the amount you want to donate

    3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button

    4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country).

    Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1

    US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1

    European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion #movember

    Keywords: LGBTQ, gay fathers, coming out, Movember, men's health, community, acceptance, relationships, pride, political issues

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    36 mins
  • Ep #29 - Gay Fathers, Navigating Love in the LGBTQ+ Community. The Dynamics of Dating and Hookups
    Nov 19 2024

    In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes explore various themes surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, particularly focusing on dating and hookup culture. They share personal anecdotes, discuss the dynamics of sexual preferences, and delve into the importance of safety when meeting new partners. The conversation also touches on the significance of owning one's identity, the experience of prostate health, and the humorous yet serious aspects of navigating dating apps. The episode concludes with a light-hearted list of things to do before you die as a gay man, emphasizing the diversity and richness of experiences within the community.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

    In each episode Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    MOVEMBER donations links: How do I donate? 1. Copy the link for your preferred currency 2. Choose the amount you want to donate 3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button 4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #pride2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords gay men, dating apps, hookup culture, sexual identity, prostate health, personal stories, LGBTQ+ community, friendship, relationships, coming out

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    46 mins
  • Ep #28 - Gay Fathers, Celebrating Pride: A Journey of Self-Discovery. Power of the LGBTQ Community
    Nov 12 2024

    In this episode, John and Brian discuss their experiences at Pride, reflecting on personal growth, identity, and the importance of community support. They share emotional moments from the parade, the liberating feeling of being oneself, and the significance of vulnerability in friendships. The conversation also touches on listener engagement and the journey of coming out, emphasizing the need for support and connection within the LGBTQ community.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

    In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    MOVEMBER donations links: How do I donate? 1. Copy the link for your preferred currency 2. Choose the amount you want to donate 3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button 4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #prinde2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords Pride, LGBTQ, Gay Fathers, Identity, Acceptance, Emotional Support, Community, Real Estate, Personal Growth, Vulnerability

    Takeaways: The Pride experience was deeply moving and emotional. Being in a supportive environment allows for true self-expression. Vulnerability in friendships leads to deeper connections. It's important to share feelings without seeking solutions. Community support is vital for those on the journey of coming out. Real estate ventures can be a source of connection and support. Personal growth often comes from shared experiences and reflections. The importance of being true to oneself in all environments. Listeners appreciate the podcast for its authenticity and support. Engaging with the community can provide valuable insights and connections.

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    40 mins
  • Ep. #27 - Gay Fathers - Sports, Pride, Connection and LGBTQ + Spaces. The Trevor Project
    Nov 5 2024

    In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage in a lively conversation that spans various topics, including their experiences watching sports in LGBTQ+ spaces, the importance of community resources for both youth and older adults, and the ongoing challenges of coming out. They also delve into trivia about LGBTQ+ history and culture, share personal anecdotes, and discuss upcoming events, all while maintaining a humorous and relatable tone.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

    In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    The Trevor Project support line: Call Us: 1-866-488-7386 Text Us: 678-678

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    MOVEMBER donation links: How do I donate? 1. Copy the link for your preferred currency 2. Choose the amount you want to donate 3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button 4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here:https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1

    US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion #movember

    Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, community, resources, sports, trivia, pride, relationships, mental health, support, Trevor Project, Grand Daddy

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    41 mins
  • Ep. #26 Gay Fathers - Social Dynamics as a Gay Man. Our Barricades and Our Authenticity. Will and Harper
    Oct 29 2024

    In this episode, Brian and John explore various themes surrounding coming out, LGBTQ+ identity, and the importance of community and acceptance. They discuss the significance of Movember in raising awareness for men's health issues, reflect on the Netflix film 'Will and Harper', and share personal experiences of fear, shame, and the joy of being seen as their true selves. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy and understanding within the LGBTQ+ community and the importance of being truthful about one's identity.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    MOVEMBER donations links: How do I donate?

    1. Copy the link for your preferred currency

    2. Choose the amount you want to donate

    3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button

    4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country).

    Links below: Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1

    US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #willferrell #WillAndHarper #transgender

    Keywords Coming Out, LGBTQ+, Men's Health, Movember, Will and Harper, Fear, Empathy, Shame, Freedom, Acceptance, Community, Transgender

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    36 mins
  • Ep. #25 - Gay Fathers - Global Fight for LGBTQ Rights. Fun with LGBTQ Trivia and History
    Oct 22 2024

    In this episode, Brian and John discuss various topics related to LGBTQ awareness, health, and rights. They promote pride events and Movember, emphasizing the importance of men's health. The conversation shifts to the necessity of honest health discussions, particularly regarding sexual health and preventive measures. They also touch on the global challenges faced by the LGBTQ community, including criminalization in many countries. The hosts explore the dynamics of open relationships within the gay community and engage in trivia about LGBTQ history and rights. The episode concludes with political commentary and humorous insights into social issues.

    Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.

    There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

    MOVEMBER donation links: How do I donate?

    1. Copy the link for your preferred currency

    2. Choose the amount you want to donate

    3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button

    4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1

    US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1

    European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion #movember

    Keywords: Pride, Movember, LGBTQ health, sexual health, gay rights, open relationships, LGBTQ trivia, political commentary, men's health, awareness

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    38 mins
  • Ep. #23 - National Coming Out Day - Guest Debbie shares the touching story of her sons coming out.
    Oct 11 2024

    In this heartfelt conversation, Brian and John celebrate National Coming Out Day with their guest Debbie, who shares the touching story of her son Cody's coming out experience. The discussion explores the challenges and triumphs of coming out, the importance of parental support, and the role of community in fostering acceptance. Debbie reflects on her initial reactions, the dynamics within her family, and offers valuable advice to parents and children navigating similar journeys. The episode emphasizes love, acceptance, and the courage it takes to be true to oneself.

    Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.

    There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

    MOVEMBER donation links: How do I donate?

    1. Copy the link for your preferred currency

    2. Choose the amount you want to donate

    3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button

    4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1 Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1 UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #movember #nationalcomingout #ncod

    Takeaways: Debbie's son Cody came out to her at 17. Parental reactions can vary greatly; support is crucial. Coming out can be a courageous act for young people. Community support plays a vital role in acceptance. Debbie emphasizes the importance of love and nurturing. It's essential for parents to keep an open heart. The relationship between a gay son and his mother is unique. Many parents struggle with their child's coming out. Debbie encourages parents to accept their children unconditionally. The conversation highlights the need for open dialogue about sexuality.

    Keywords: Coming Out, LGBTQ, Parental Support, Acceptance, Community, National Coming Out Day, Personal Stories, Family Dynamics, Love, Courage

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    33 mins
  • Ep #22 - Gay Fathers - Building Community: Finding Your Tribe. Rejection from Children
    Oct 8 2024

    In this episode, John and Brian discuss various topics relevant to the LGBTQ community, including upcoming Pride events, Movember, and National Coming Out Day. They share personal reflections on coming out, listener letters addressing rejection from children, and the importance of building community and support. The conversation is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and insights into the challenges faced by gay fathers and individuals navigating their identities. Join your hosts,

    Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    MOVEMBER donations links:

    How do I donate?

    1. Copy the link for your preferred currency

    2. Choose the amount you want to donate

    3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button

    4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country).

    Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1

    US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1

    European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion

    Keywords: Pride, Movember, Coming Out, LGBTQ, Men's Health, Community Support, Listener Letters, Personal Stories, Gay Fathers, Mental Health

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    35 mins