In this engaging episode of "Dear Matchmaker," I invite you into my world as I share my personal journey from running a dance studio to becoming a dedicated matchmaker and dating coach. My story is one of resilience, transformation, and the passion for helping others find meaningful connections.

Join me as I chat with Jose and Brittany on the "Finding Arizona" podcast, revealing how my life's challenges and triumphs guided me to the fulfilling world of matchmaking. From my early days as a dancer to navigating life as a single mother, my path is filled with pivotal moments that led me to where I am today.

In this episode, I discuss:

• My transformation from post-divorce rediscovery to becoming a matchmaker, guiding others on their love journeys.
• How my dance studio reignited my passion for community, connection, and personal growth.
• The power of curiosity over chemistry in building lasting relationships and the importance of being truly seen and appreciated.
• My approach to helping clients enhance their dating lives through first impressions, effort, and authenticity.
• Exciting developments for my matchmaking business in Scottsdale and Phoenix, including an upcoming ribbon-cutting event.

Learn where you can connect with me online and follow my journey on social media and through my podcast, "Dear Matchmaker," available on all major streaming platforms. Join me as I share insights and inspiration to transform your own approach to love and relationships.

For more details and updates, visit Scottsdalematchmaker.com and follow me on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook @catcantrill

In this thought-provoking episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we address the common pitfalls people encounter in the world of online dating. Many singles approach dating apps with skepticism, assuming that finding a meaningful connection online is improbable. However, with 60% of couples meeting online today, there’s a need to shift this mindset.

Join me as I highlight the importance of moving beyond assumptions and embracing an open-minded approach to online dating. Discover how saying 'yes' more often to profiles that pique your curiosity can lead you to unexpected and fulfilling connections.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The assumptions that often lead women to miss out on potential matches, emphasizing a shift from focusing on photos to understanding bios.
• Tips for assessing profiles genuinely and looking beyond superficial traits for compatibility.
• Encouraging an open-minded approach to dating, allowing yourself to explore connections with those who may not be your 'type.'
• Strategies for cultivating a positive mindset that welcomes the possibilities of finding love online.
• The transformative impact of viewing profiles with curiosity, prioritizing communication and shared values.

Challenge your online dating approach by embracing curiosity and the opportunities waiting to unfold. Reflect on whether your assumptions are holding you back from meeting someone who truly complements your life.

For further insights and to share your thoughts on this episode, follow me on TikTok and Instagram @catcantrill. Dive into this journey of discovering meaningful connections, starting with an open and receptive mindset.

In this unique and introspective episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we explore the concept of self-love and how it can transform your approach to relationships. Drawing inspiration from Don Miguel Ruiz's book, "The Mastery of Love," we dive into the profound metaphor of the "magical kitchen" within your heart, highlighting the boundless love we possess and the power it holds in shaping our romantic lives.

Join me as I share a transformative story that encourages you to embrace the abundance of love within yourself, rather than seeking validation and fulfillment solely through others. This episode offers a powerful reminder of the importance of self-acceptance and understanding your worth as integral steps in finding meaningful connections.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The concept of the "magical kitchen": How recognizing the love within you can empower your relationship choices.
• The pitfalls of seeking external validation and how it leads to dependency and dissatisfaction.
• Why self-love is the foundation for healthier, more fulfilling relationships, allowing you to share love freely and fearlessly.
• How embracing self-worth can help you identify and avoid relationships that don't serve your well-being.
• Encouraging self-reflection on whether your heart is open to giving love without expectation and welcoming love that complements your life.

Find me: www.scottsdalematchmaker.com & www.theheartagency.com

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Join us for a special episode of "Dear Matchmaker," recorded live at the Iowa Podcast Awards. In this engaging session, we dive deep into the challenges and questions that singles face in the world of modern dating, offering practical advice and strategies for success.

In this episode, we explore:

• Strategies for Communicating Relationship Goals: How to express your intentions confidently and clearly without fear of scaring off potential partners.
• Crafting Unique Conversations on Dating Apps: Tips for avoiding generic openers and creating personalized, engaging interactions that reflect genuine interest.
• Establishing Healthy Boundaries: How to set personal limits early in dating to pave the way for balanced and respectful relationships.
• Understanding Chemistry vs. Compatibility: Recognizing the difference and focusing on long-term compatibility over initial attraction.
• Embracing Rejection as Redirection: Viewing each “no” as a step closer to the right “yes,” and maintaining self-confidence through self-awareness and recognition of personal strengths.
• Creating an Authentic Online Dating Profile: Tips on showcasing your true self through photos and profiles that highlight what life with you could be like.
• Alternative Ways to Meet People: Exploring offline opportunities and the importance of being open to initiating conversations in real life.

For more dating advice and updates, follow me on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook @catcantrill.

Thank you to Upload Media Group & Iowa Podcast Awards for this opportunity!

In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," engage in a thought-provoking conversation with the insightful Dr. Lilli, a naturopathic doctor and relationship expert dedicated to helping individuals transform their relationship patterns and cultivate self-love. Dr. Lilli's journey from overcoming personal trauma and self-doubt to empowering others is both powerful and enlightening, offering listeners a roadmap to emotional healing and personal growth.

Join us as Dr. Lilli shares her transformative story and the holistic techniques she employs to guide clients toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Discover how she combines her background in neuroscience and psychology with her experience in naturopathic medicine to address underlying beliefs and promote genuine self-love.

In this episode, we delve into:

• Dr. Lilli’s personal journey of overcoming codependency and limiting beliefs, leading her to support others in healing their relationship patterns.
• The significant role of holistic practices in facilitating emotional and physical well-being.
• Strategies for building a strong self-relationship that serve as a foundation for healthier connections with others.
• The power of questioning negative self-talk and societal standards to foster self-acceptance and confidence.
• Encouraging a mindset shift from fearing rejection to embracing personal value and authenticity.
• Practical advice on how to view oneself with unconditional love and cultivate self-worth as a daily practice.

Dr. Lilli’s insights are invaluable for anyone looking to transform their approach to relationships and self-care. To connect with Dr. Lilli and explore her teachings further, follow her on Instagram at @confidence.reclaimed. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to embrace a vibrant and empowered personal journey.

In this empowering episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we dive deep into the world of health and wellness with Mindi, a dynamic and down-to-earth health coach with nearly 20 years of experience. With a focus on personalized health journeys, Mindi sheds light on her methods to help women of all ages define what "being healthy" truly means to them. Join us as we explore how self-worth, lifestyle changes, and incremental steps can transform your health journey and boost your dating confidence!

Show Notes:

• Introduction: Meeting Mindi and her journey into health coaching.
• The importance of defining personal health and wellness.
• Mindi's philosophy: Realistic and sustainable health habits.
• The impact of diet and nutrition on overall well-being.
• Navigating menopause and understanding women's health issues in midlife.
• Addressing societal pressures and judgment about personal health choices.
• Building confidence through small changes and self-discovery.
• Parallels between health journeys and dating experiences.
• Insights on customizing your health plan to align with personal goals.
• How to deal with external opinions and focus on inner growth.
• Highlight on Mindi's book, "Be Real, Be Healthy," and more resources.

Resources & Links:

• For more on Mindi's coaching and her book, visit BeRealBeHealthy.com

In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we sit down with the warm and insightful Janice, a dedicated breakup coach and self-care advocate. Janice's path from early marriage and heartbreaking divorce to becoming a guide for others navigating similar waters is as inspiring as it is enlightening.

Her personal transformation laid the foundation for her approach to helping clients overcome relationship tumult and embrace new beginnings.

Join us as Janice shares her journey and the tools she developed—which are now helping so many find happiness post-breakup. Discover how she transforms heartache into healing, emphasizing the radical self-care that can turn life around and the fresh perspectives needed to move forward.

In this episode, we delve into:

• Janice’s personal story of marriage, divorce, and personal growth, leading her to support others in overcoming breakups.
• The profound impact of crafting new daily routines to facilitate emotional healing.
• The reality of "breakup brain" and how mindfulness can redirect lingering thoughts of past relationships.
• How Janice encourages embracing single life, transforming it into a period of self-love, independence, and vibrant opportunities.
• The importance of developing confidence and understanding that being single does not equate to loneliness, but rather offers a powerful chance for self-discovery.
• Practical advice on prioritizing self-investment and preparing for future, healthy relationships through self-confidence and readiness.

Janice’s insights are a beacon for those at any stage of post-breakup recovery looking to reclaim their life with enthusiasm and joy. To connect with Janice and learn more about her coaching, visit her on Instagram @janiceformichella. This episode is perfect for anyone ready to transform their narrative and embrace a fulfilling new chapter.

In this episode of Dear Matchmaker, we’re joined by the brilliant and hilarious Karen Seltz, a Rapid Resolution Therapy (RRT) Facilitator, subconscious mind rewiring expert, and badass coach. Karen’s journey of overcoming addiction and depression using the same mind-rewiring techniques she now offers her clients is both powerful and inspiring. Known for her blend of nerdy humor and life-changing coaching, Karen shares how she helps people release the past, rewire their brains for success, and embody new, fun, and automatic behaviors that bring joy and ease into their lives.

We explore Karen’s playful approach to personal transformation, including why she believes learning happens best through play, and how she uses RRT to remove mental glitches, guiding her clients toward a future full of freedom and possibility. This episode is packed with insights, laughter, and practical tips for stepping boldly into a brighter, more authentic version of yourself.

Key Discussion Points:

• Karen’s personal journey of overcoming depression and addiction using Rapid Resolution Therapy (RRT)
• How RRT helps remove mental glitches and rewire the brain for desired thoughts and behaviors
• The importance of play in learning and creating lasting transformation
• How Karen uses humor, joy, and playfulness to guide clients toward deeper healing and lasting success
• The role of embodiment in making new habits automatic, natural, and easy
• Why Karen believes it’s her responsibility to cause shifts in her clients, not just guide them
• Practical tips for releasing the past and stepping boldly into your future

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