In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Andrew Daniel joins me to talk about sexual polarity, holistic sex, and emotional vulnerability from a man's perspective.

Andrew helps us navigate important issues on men's perceptions of masculinity, societal expectations of gender roles, and the influence of these elements on personal relationships. He highlights the significance of emotional maturity and self-awareness as key to creating genuine intimacy and having a fulfilling sex life. Andrew suggests that by embracing vulnerability, men can enhance every facet of their life, from relationships to professional success.

Andrew Daniel is an award-winning and international bestselling author and director at the Center for Cinesomatic Development. His Cinesomatics® workshops are held internationally from New York to London, Tuscany to Switzerland—helping professionals see the elusive patterns that hold them back. This methodology leads the world in cinematic movement diagnostics and advanced intuition development integrating approaches from embodiment, shadow work, therapy, and spirituality.

His book, Awaken to Your True Self, is a gold Nautilus Book Awards recipient and #1 Amazon bestseller in the US & UK. In his early career, Andrew coded a particle and physics engine by the age of 18⁠, used by top Fortune 100 companies over the 7 years of his software business. His first teaching work, Holistic Sex (Mindvalley, 2014), provided the world with a new paradigm that bridged the divide between sexuality, spirituality, and the sexes. Andrew is also an advisor for the Alan Watts Organization.

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [2:48] Why men comes to him for help

• [7:32] Why men do not feel supported in embracing the masculine and feminine

• [16:21] Intimacy is more than just sex

• [21:53] Battle of the sexes

• [24:19] Making someone's pleasure your pleasure

• [28:12] Revisiting our north american views on sex and intimacy vs. other countries

• [36:51] When your body is at odds with your brain

• [38:50] Developing self awareness

• [45:46] What is sexual polarity

• [52:21] Control and safety

• [56:59] Tips for men to start being introspective with themselves and their experiences
  
  

Connect with Andrew

• https://andrewdaniel.org  

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• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic 

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, we talk all about the taboo subject of talking about money in relationships.

My guest, Marci Grossman, highlights how financial stress is a significant contributor to a couple's sex life disruption. Marci discusses the importance of being financially literate to avoid money-related issues in relationships.

The conversation also focuses on the impact of financial responsibility in relationships, addressing key factors like communication about earnings, debt, retirement, and savings.

We also talk about the importance of having open conversations about financial expectations and circumstances when dating or entering a relationship, and how to manage finances responsibly whenever there's a major shift in life (like losing a job).

Marci Grossman is a CPA with over 30 years of experience helping individuals and businesses with financial matters. She has worked in public, private, and non-profit accounting. Her passion is helping people to improve their relationship with money.

We get into:

• [0:00] Intro

• [2:43] My own experience in my marriage surrounding money

• [6:15] The conversations about money that need to be had before marriage, and Marci's experience in her own marriage

• [10:20] Should we put money together or keep it separate?

• [12:40] Why do people avoid conversations about money while dating

• [14:20] Are there money deal breakers in a relationship?

• [18:35] The problems that finances can cause

• [20:05] Mental health struggles with financial burdens

• [25:50] Tips for couples to start to look at their finances and set themselves up to be in a better position

• [27:15] How much to save for an emergency and retirement

• [33:10] The generational differences between our parents and us
  
  

Connect with Marci

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/money.marci/

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MoneyMarci/

• Links: https://www.moneymarci.com/links

• www.moneymarci.com

Connect with me

• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com

In this episode, we return from a brief break and introduce Ava, a Tantric expert, who was previously on the podcast, and who I’ve been working with over the last six months.

We talk all about the various types of female orgasms including clitoral, G-spot, cervical, U-spot, A-spot, P-spot, and anal orgasms.

We also talk about how expecting a specific outcome, such as a particular type of orgasm, can limit one's ability to fully experience pleasure, emphasizing that tantric practices are more about healing and self-exploration than only focusing on achieving orgasms.

The episode highlights the importance of effective communication, understanding one's emotions, and establishing safety and connection on a physical and emotional level during sex. We also touch on societal misconceptions about pleasure, trauma, and our intricate connections to sexuality.

Ava is a Transformational Therapist and Tantra Healer certified by the only government accredited institute of tantra in the entire world - The Institute of Authentic Tantra! She has over 1,700+ hours of training in the field of tantra, as well as psychological, emotional, and spiritual healing modalities. Ava believes that healing shouldn't take years, and primarily guides men, women, and couples through a unique and holistic approach to healing and sexual fulfillment.

We get into:

• [0:00] Intro

• [1:25] Why we’re talking about orgasms

• [2:30] What does it really mean to orgasm

• [5:50] The emotional side of an orgasm

• [10:00] Is there a rank of which orgasm is the best?

• [15:05] G-spot orgasms

• [25:45] GSpot crystal wand, stimulation, squirting

• [30:30] U-Spot Orgasm

• [35:35] Cervical orgasm

• [40:50] A spot orgasm

• [42:55] Finding these spots for yourself

• [58:55] Anal orgasms

• [1:07:00] Sexual trauma and the resistance people might feel when they first start this work
  
  

Connect with Ava

• Instagram: https://www.flamewithintantra.com/

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087647945726&mibextid=ZbWKwL

Connect with me

• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com

In this episode, we explore the profound impact of relationship trauma on Alyssen's journey and how it has shaped her work. Join us as she candidly shares personal stories, shedding light on the transformative power of addressing past wounds to create healthier relationships.

Continuing the conversation, we delve into the fascinating realm of hormonal fluctuations and the effects of birth control on our sex drives. Uncovering the scientific and psychological aspects, we examine how birth control can influence our intimate lives. Additionally, we talk about the importance of anticipation and scheduling intimacy, sharing practical tools to create deeper connections.

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [1:45] The relationship trauma that brought Alyssen into this work

• [4:35] The impact of birth control on our hormones and sex drives

• [9:40] Anticipating and scheduling intimacy

• [13:30] The expectations of how many times you should have sex per day or week

• [16:40] Why people don't like talking about sex

• [18:40] Needing to do the inner work when it comes to dating

• [24:45] Tools to help you do that work

• [28:00] Being alone vs. filling a void

• [31:40] Knowing your boundaries and what you will and won’t put up with

• [39:55] Do men attract the same women over and over?

Connect with Alyssen

• Instagram: https://instagram.com/Elevated.aspects_

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087647945726&mibextid=ZbWKwL 

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• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic 

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, we explore the world of women's health and fibroids with LaToya Dwight. Through her personal journey and experiences, LaToya shares valuable insights on topics such as the impact of diet, advocating for oneself, managing intimacy, and addressing bias in the medical industry, while also shedding light on her non-profit organization dedicated to supporting women affected by fibroids.

Discover the challenges women face when dealing with fibroids and gain a deeper understanding of the symptoms that lead to questioning one's health. Explore practical solutions and alternative approaches for those who prefer non-medical routes, all while being inspired by LaToya's passion for empowering women and her unwavering commitment to raising awareness and providing support in the realm of fibroids.

As a wife, mother, sister, daughter, and loyal friend, LaToya Dwight embarked on a fibroid healing journey after learning about the dis-ease of uterine fibroids by happenstance, when going to her OB/GYN to have an IUD replacement. Leaving the doctors office with little to no guidance, LaToya felt compelled to take her health into her own hands. Participating in various coaching programs, doing yoga, qi gong, meditation, deep breathing exercises, eating for her blood type, and even going vegan, all led LaToya down a lonely 4 year long journey. 

After having a successful, minimally invasive procedure, LaToya felt compelled to tell her story in an effort to help someone else. This birthed The Fibroid Pandemic! It's mission is to provide resources to humans with a uterus who are seeking to overcome fibroids through education, support, and tools in order to best advocate for oneself. 

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [1:35] How LaToya got into this work

• [4:10] Finding out she had fibroids

• [6:15] Did her IUD cause fibroids?

• [8:15] How diet impacts fibroids

• [10:30] The symptoms that made her question her health

• [15:55] Advocating for yourself and getting second opinions

• [18:35] Was sex painful with fibroids?

• [20:20] Could she orgasm

• [22:45] How her flare ups happen

• [26:50] The bias in the medical industry

• [30:20] About her non-profit organization

• [32:50] Safe products women can use during their cycles

• [37:35] The biggest struggle women face when it comes to fibroids

• [42:20] What to do if you don't want to go the medical route

Connect with Latoya

• Instagram: https://instagram.com/thefibroidpandemic

• Website: www.thefibroidpandemic.com  

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• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic 

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, Kerin shares her inspiring background and triumph over eating disorders, challenging deeply ingrained belief systems formed at a young age.

Explore the power of nourishing your body with foods that make you feel good and delve into the impact of weight on your dating life. Discover the mindset of a confident woman who knows her worth and unravel the toxic patterns that hinder meaningful connections. Gain insights into cultivating a balanced approach to working out, eating, and lifestyle choices, embracing both feminine and masculine energies. Reflect on the significance of setting boundaries around health, wellness, food, and dating, and get ready to gain clarity on your desires within relationships.

Kerin is an Executive Life Coach with a mission to redefine standards in health, body, mind and spirit to truly live in a happy body and lead a successful life.

Specializing in the development of emotional balance, confidence, mindset management, and intuitive weight loss, Kerin specializes in the release of trauma from the cellular body and the repatterning of the thoughts and emotions that hold us back from showing up as the person we desire to be.

Join us for an empowering conversation that will ignite personal growth, inspire transformation, and lead to fulfilling connections.

We get into:

• [0:00] Intro

• [1:00] Kerin's background and experience with eating disorders

• [5:10] The belief system people develop at a young age

• [8:00] Eating foods that make you feel good

• [10:45] How weight affects your dating life

• [12:10] Being a woman who knows her worth

• [16:00] Toxic dating patterns

• [17:50] Unraveling your mindset around working out, eating and lifestyle choices

• [19:45] The balance between feminine and masculine energetics

• [23:30] Do you need to sleep with someone to know if you like them or not?

• [25:30] Boundaries around health, wellness, food and dating

• [32:55] Getting clear about what you desire in a relationship

Connect with Kerin

• Instagram: https://instagram.com/kerin.eilis

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/789941495857983/?ref=share_group_link

• Freebie: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/62750363ec93244248595fa6

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• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com

In this episode, Melissa and I dive into handjobs, casual sex and deep desire that pushes boundaries. We share our fave techniques that will leave you and your partner craving more.

We also challenge preconceptions about casual sex and embrace the freedom and liberation that comes with exploring desires beyond the conventional.

We get into:

• [0:00] Intro

• [0:45] Should handjobs make a comeback?

• [1:30] The art of giving a great handjob

• [7:25] Where handjobs feel best for men

• [11:00] Never do fast and jerky strokes

• [11:45] Have guys ever told you how they like being jerked off?

• [13:25] Handjobs as foreplay for amazing sex

• [14:55] Having multiple orgasms in one session

• [17:15] Can you have casual sex without feelings?

• [19:55] Is sex once a week enough?

• [22:15] How to not grow attachment to a casual partner

• [26:00] Why you can't change a man's mind about relationships

• [29:35] Why men’s sex drives are really the problem

• [34:05] Having sex on your period

• [36:05] Sarah’s anal sex obsession

Connect with us!

• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com

In this episode, Noah Evan joins me to talk candidly about sex, the gay sex scene, and everything in between. 

Noah is a queer podcaster of the "Severely Personal" podcast, who loves to discuss all things intimate through comedy and stories. He loves to find connections and community and is always looking to learn.

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [0:50] Noah's podcast, Severely Personal

• [2:40] Bringing humor to hard conversations

• [5:00] The prep work that goes into anal

• [10:30] Is it hard dating and finding good partners?

• [12:30] Keeping up with different terms and ways people identify 

• [16:10] The differences in judgment and stigma for men and women when it comes to sex

• [17:30] Are gay men hornier than straight men

• [18:10] How many times you should have sex a week

• [19:25] Can you heal through casual sex?

• [20:05] What the sex scene is like in Florida

• [23:40] Noah's best and most memorable sex experience

• [33:10] ​​Speaking up and saying what you want in bed

• [38:10] Why bad sex experiences can ruin sex in the future 

Connect with Noah

• Instagram: www.instagram.com/severelypersonal

• Twitter: www.twitter.com/severelypersonal  

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/severelypersonal 

• Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/0o1hDWwNMlnLGVOlgO4twk?si=LmuG7ycJQhKSkwN99_D49A&dd=1 

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• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic 

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com