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F*** You Very Much

By: Danny Wallace
Narrated by: Danny Wallace
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Summary

Random House presents the audiobook edition of F*** You Very Much, written and read by Danny Wallace.

You're not imagining it. People are getting ruder. And this is a serious problem.

The book that inspired the iTunes Top Ten podcast.

Did you know that even one rude comment in a life-and-death situation can decrease a surgeon’s performance by as much as 50 percent? That we say we don’t want rude politicians, but we vote for them anyway? Or that rude language can sway a jury in a criminal case?

Best-selling writer and broadcaster Danny Wallace (Yes Man, Awkward Situations for Men) is on a mission to understand where we have gone wrong. He travels the world interviewing neuroscientists, psychologists, NASA scientists, barristers, bin men, and bellboys. He joins a Radical Honesty group in Germany, talks to drivers about road rage in LA, and confronts his own online troll in a pub.

And in doing so, he uncovers the latest thinking about how we behave; how rudeness, once unleashed, can spread like a virus; and how even one flippant remark can snowball into disaster.

As insightful and enthralling as it is highly entertaining, F*** You Very Much is an eye-opening exploration into the worst side of human behaviour.

This book was originally published under the title I Can’t Believe You Just Said That. But we decided it just wasn’t rude enough....

©2018 Danny Wallace (P)2018 Random House Audiobooks

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"A cry for human decency...deliciously hilarious. I politely encourage you to read this book. Immediately." (Adam Grant author of Originals, Give and Take, Option B)

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Insightful and hilarious!

I love the way Danny Wallace narrates. It’s a fascinating insight into something that effects us daily, without us realising it’s insidious nature. All delivered with great humour. An unusual and interesting topic for a book. Highly recommend.

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Very entertaining

This is very interesting and amusing. Easy to listen to and thought provoking. Got me hooked, Danny has got a great delivery.

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Mind opening listen

the study of rudeness.
brilliantly written and read. thanx Danny.
humorous and informative.
I will certainly time my next hotdog order. whether it is cooked to order or not. 🤠

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Fun idea for a great tale

Really enjoyed this take. saw a lot of what Danny said in the world today. yes we are becoming so rude today.

Pity. But we only have ourselves to blame

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Danny Wallace is Fantastic

Not my favourite, and I hate to say also a little dull in parts, but Danny’s narration is terrific.

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A Great Listen !

loved this very funny and informative book, laugh out loud humour and very relatable

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Funny and interesting.

This is my first encounter with Danny’s work and I really enjoyed it. It was both funny and interesting and I would recommend it. I look forward to checking out more of his books.

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impressive study and social analysis

This feels like a scientific document, should be mandatory in schools maybe. Since I read it I paid more attention to rude people, how it affects me and how rude I appear to others.
Hopefully there will be another book by the same author on study of politeness and kindness and it's effects on people.

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thank you very much

a great look at the current situation in politics and further. a very good read in empathy

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Good listen thought provoking and gets you to think about the way people speak to you and you them.

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