There are many things a person can be in recovery from and there are many pathways to get into and stay in recovery. In this episode, Joseph and Paula explore those pathways and discuss multiple resources available to address addiction and those that support recovery. If you are a person who struggles with addiction, a person in recovery, or someone who knows a person with addiction or in recovery, you will not want to miss this episode.

This episode is sponsored by the Recovery to Practice Initiative at The University of North Texas. To find out more about UNT RTP you can visit their website at UNT Recovery to Practice Website.

Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠mail to: Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: www.lifelivedbetter.net

Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Work Used in the Research of this Episode:

Pathways to Healing and Recovery: Perspectives from Individuals with Histories of Alcohol and Other Drug Problems Garland, P. (2024). Many Pathways to Recovery [Class handout]. University of North Texas, ADDS 4675.

This episode is co-sponsored by the Recovery to Practice Initiative at The University of North Texas. Joseph and Paula are taking on one of our most popular topics - Questions for Counselors!

Questions are coming in about anxiety, procrastination, burnout, and more. Send us your question today.

Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

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Resources referenced during this episode:

Information about Recovery to Practice can be found on the website: hps.unt.edu/rhs/rtp

The Virtual Community of Practice can be accessed through Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/RecoverytoPractice

11 Ways to Overcome Procrastination
Psychology Today18 Time Management Tips to Boost Productivity [2024] • Asana

Have you ever been controlled by another person? Are you a controlling person?

In this episode, we're diving into a complex topic: control. We’ll explore the subtle and overt tactics used by individuals who seek to manipulate and dominate others, whether in personal relationships, workplaces, or broader societal contexts. We will dissect the psychology behind these behaviors and offer practical advice on how to recognize and address them. Joseph and Paula will share insights on setting healthy boundaries and regaining your personal power. If you’ve ever felt overshadowed or controlled, this episode will empower you with strategies to reclaim your autonomy and foster healthier interactions. Tune in to understand how to protect yourself and support others who may be affected by controlling behavior. Don’t miss this essential discussion on navigating and overcoming manipulation.

Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Work Used in the Research of this Episode:

Familial manipulation: Common tactics and how to respond (medicalnewstoday.com)

If You Display These 11 Traits, Your Family Was Probably Very Controlling (msn.com)

Signs of emotional abuse: Situations and relationships (medicalnewstoday.com)

What is a controlling person? An overview (decision-making-confidence.com)

Support

You can seek support through any of the following:

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call or text the hotline for help, as well as information and advice on different forms of abuse.

• Child Welfare Information Gateway: This group provides a resource list of organizations that can give support to those experiencing family violence and abuse.

• Family Crisis Centers: This offers resources, support, and a 24-hour hotline for families in crisis.
  Domestic Violence Resource Network: This provides a list of resources and organizations to support family violence and abuse.

In this insightful episode of Life Lived Better, your hosts Joseph and Paula dive into the challenging but essential topic of navigating life after a relationship ends. Whether you’re freshly single or still processing the breakup, this episode offers practical advice and emotional support to help you move forward with confidence and clarity.

We explore Processing Your Emotions, Rediscovering Yourself, Building a Support System, Setting New Goals, Navigating Social Media, and Self-Care Essentials.

Join us as we share personal stories, expert insights, and actionable steps to help you turn this difficult chapter into an opportunity for growth and renewal. Whether you're seeking closure, self-improvement, or just some reassuring advice, this episode is here to guide you through the next steps.

Tune in and take your first step towards a brighter future!

Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Work Used in the Research of this Episode:

7 Ways to Cope After the End of a Relationship | Psychology Today

Is Social Media Helpful or Hurtful After a Breakup? | Psychology Today

Grieving After a Break-Up? 6 Strategies to Help You Heal (clevelandclinic.org)

Navigating Social Media After A Breakup: Modern Therapy

In today's episode, we're diving into the challenging topic of failing relationships. If you find yourself wondering whether your relationship is beyond repair, we'll explore the signs.

Therapists say that constant criticism, stonewalling, putting forth little effort, and emotional detachment are a few of the signs that your relationship might be over.

We all know relationships can be tough, and sometimes, despite our best efforts, they don't work out. If you’ve truly given it a chance and it's time to let go, be honest with yourself and your partner. Reflect on what you’ve learned, consider personal growth, and avoid rushing into a new relationship.

Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Work Used in the Research of this Episode:

3 signs your relationship is failing, according to a therapist (msn.com)

7 Early Warning Signs of A Dying Relationship | Power of Positivity: Positive Thinking & Attitude

20 Signs That a Relationship Is Over | Psychology Today

Psychologist shares five signs your relationship is over | Metro News

Joseph and Paula collectively have over 50 years of experience working in the field of counseling. Their answers to the Questions for Counselors episodes are drawn from their life and work experiences. When information is given that is taken from other resources, they will be highlighted in the show notes.

Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Resources Referred to in this Episode:

The blog Paula mentioned in this episode is www.paulahellergarland.blogspot.com You can find information about the Counseling Space and other topics that may be of interest.

You can find the book mentioned in this episode on Amazon or at any book seller. The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel A. Van der Kolk, M.D.

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma: van der Kolk M.D., Bessel: 9780143127741: Amazon.com: Books

Joseph and Paula continue their conversation about Many Pathways to Recovery in part two. There are many things a person can be in recovery from and there are many pathways to get into and stay in recovery. In this episode, Joseph and Paula explore those pathways and discuss multiple resources available to address addiction and those that support recovery. If you are a person who struggles with addiction, a person in recovery, or someone who knows a person with addiction or in recovery, you will not want to miss this episode.

The second part of this episode is also sponsored by the Recovery to Practice Initiative at The University of North Texas. To find out more about UNT RTP you can visit their website at ⁠UNT Recovery to Practice Website⁠.

Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠mail to: Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net ⁠

Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Work Used in the Research of this Episode:

Garland, P. (2024). Many Pathways to Recovery [Class handout]. University of North Texas, ADDS 4675

Pathways to Healing and Recovery: Perspectives from Individuals with Histories of Alcohol and Other Drug Problems

Recovery and Recovery Support | SAMHSA

SAMHSA - Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration

UNT Recovery to Practice Virtual Community on Facebook