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Have you ever felt like your desires have taken a backseat to the demands of life? As women, we often find ourselves navigating a complex web of societal expectations and biological inclinations, which can lead us to prioritize others' needs over our own. On this episode, we share Karen's heartfelt journey of losing touch with her personal desires amid the responsibilities of motherhood, alongside Lucy's reflections on her evolving aspirations as her children grow more independent. Together, we take a closer look at how personal desires related to freedom, sexuality, money, and power transform throughout different stages of life, underscoring the crucial role of self-awareness and inner strength.

Rediscovering and healing our relationship with sexual power and identity is no easy feat. Our conversation takes a deep dive into the profound impact trauma, motherhood, and life changes have on our sexual desires. We highlight the struggle of balancing societal expectations with personal self-expression and the importance of maintaining intuition and safety by not shutting down parts of our bodies. Discover how embracing sexual energy can catalyze creativity and abundance in other areas of life, and how self-exploration and understanding one's sexual power are invaluable tools on this intricate journey.

We also unravel the intricate dynamics between intimacy, power, and money in relationships. Financial issues often mask deeper concerns about respect, roles, and appreciation, and we uncover the ways money serves as a currency of power rather than the root problem itself. Through insightful discussions about communication and clarity in partnerships, we emphasize the importance of articulating desires and needs to foster understanding and mutual growth. Join us as we explore how past experiences shape our ability to ask for what we need and how overcoming these barriers can lead to fulfilling and balanced relationships.

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What happens when we shift from a life of survival to a life of thriving? Join us, Lucy and Karen, as we share our deeply personal journeys, examining the delicate dance between asking for help and truly receiving it. Karen opens up about the transformative effects of requesting support in her family, leading to a more joyful and balanced home life. Meanwhile, Lucy reflects on her corporate career, where asking for help was easy, but accepting it was a different story. Together, we explore how embracing both sides of this equation can prevent loneliness and burnout, fostering gratitude and deeper connections.

Step into a world where teamwork and personal growth are no longer at odds. We invite you to explore the evolution from a "can do" mindset to a "can be" approach, where shared responsibility and interdependence create stronger communities. Discover the rituals and practices that can guide you toward personal empowerment, allowing you to express your needs while considering others. As we move from merely surviving to truly thriving, learn how assertiveness can unlock new levels of personal development, helping you align with your highest potential and live a life filled with resilience and fulfillment.

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Lucy found herself grappling with stress, often hesitating to ask for help until it felt too late. Karen, meanwhile, faced a life-altering accident that left her vulnerable and in need of support. Their stories bring to light the complexities and emotional hurdles surrounding the issue of asking for assistance. Listen as we break down the taboos and societal expectations that discourage us from seeking help, especially for women who are pressured to manage it all. Discover how embracing vulnerability can lead to healing and growth, and the profound realization that we are worthy of the love and support we seek.

Inspired by the natural world, we explore the beauty of shared support, using the imagery of wild geese to illustrate how nature thrives on collaboration and mutual aid. The discussion challenges societal norms that compel individuals to carry burdens that aren't theirs and encourages shedding those inherited responsibilities for true liberation. By recognizing that others are often willing to help, we can unlock a sense of freedom and empowerment previously hindered by self-imposed barriers. Our conversation intertwines personal anecdotes with broader reflections on how collaboration and asking for support can lead to meaningful change.

Reconnecting through vulnerability and collaboration, we share how our renewed partnership has fueled a creative podcast venture. By combining strengths and supporting one another, we've experienced the transformative power of teamwork, open communication, and the courage to reach out. This episode advocates for redefining leadership by embracing authenticity and emotional expression, creating an inclusive space where both women and men can feel empowered to access and share their emotions. As we close, we invite you to join us in embracing your authentic self and preparing for next week's practical insights on effectively asking for help.

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Have you ever wondered how the term "witch" became synonymous with evil and how it's tied to the silencing of women's voices over the centuries? Join us for a spellbinding conversation with our guest Karen as we uncover the captivating history and cultural impact of the "witch wound." With personal stories that touch on heart energy and the mystical sensitivities of Karen's daughter, Catalina, we spotlight the dual nature of witches—challenging negative stereotypes and celebrating the healing, nature-connected aspects of this misunderstood archetype.

Explore the evolution of words and thoughts that have historically demonized women, like the transformation of "gossip" from a supportive term to a tool of vilification. Discover how modern women are reclaiming power through platforms like TikTok and Instagram, and using spirituality as a cornerstone for empowerment. Together, we discuss the significance of spiritual practices that align with personal beliefs, offering pathways for women to live their most authentic lives by clearing negative energies and harnessing personal power.

Take a journey back to ancient wisdom as we reconnect with herbal remedies and the natural world. Inspired by a "lost book of herbal remedies," we discuss the powerful healing properties of plants and their role in nutrition and well-being. With insights from authors like Sharon Blackie, we encourage embracing the beauty and mystery of the autumn season with intentionality. As we approach the mystical time of Samhain, discover how rituals and simple acts like lighting a candle can ground and empower you, fostering a deeper connection with the natural world and the generations of women who came before us.

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Casual sexism lurks in everyday life, from the clothes we wear to the space we claim in public. Lucy and Karen come together on Say it Sister to tackle these pervasive issues head-on. Lucy shares the journey of raising daughters who are beginning to recognize the subtle and not-so-subtle ways sexism creeps into their world. Karen reflects on her own past experiences, revealing the emotional scars that linger. Our conversation uncovers not just the absurdity of tiny pockets in women’s jeans, but the normalization of dismissive attitudes toward harassment and the importance of teaching the next generation to recognize and combat sexism.

Challenging sexism requires more than just awareness; it demands action and empowerment. We discuss the crucial need for women to reclaim their power by confronting inappropriate comments and behaviors, especially when those behaviors come from positions of authority. This isn't just about women; it's about educating everyone on personal boundaries and respect, a priority that has become even more vital in a post-COVID world where personal space is cherished. By sharing our stories, we aim to inspire you to recognize these issues and challenge them, setting the stage for more in-depth conversations on societal clichés and gender norms.

Navigating societal judgment, particularly around body image and clothing, poses another challenge. The tension between self-expression and safety is an ongoing struggle for women and girls alike. Through personal anecdotes, we explore how women assert control over their personal space, from choosing outfits that empower rather than invite judgment to dealing with uncomfortable situations on public transport. This episode is a celebration of using one’s voice—whether through speaking out or creative expression. As we wrap up, we invite our community to continue this dialogue and embrace their unique voices, reminding everyone that your voice truly matters.

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Ever wondered how everyday sexism shapes the lives of women around you? In this powerful episode, we dive into the alarming statistic that 86% of women face street harassment, inspired by a moving TikTok video from the Mayor of West Yorkshire. We share personal stories and compelling examples to highlight the impact of these experiences and discuss how open conversations, education, and awareness are essential to combat this societal issue. We also explore the coping mechanisms women develop to navigate daily sexism and emphasize the need for collective courage and support.

Have you ever felt the pressure to balance career success with domestic responsibilities? Join us as we unpack how gender roles influence personal relationships and professional environments. Through my own experience of unconsciously dimming my ambitions to fit into a traditional dynamic, we discuss the challenges women face in striving for equality at home and work. We also touch on the normalization of these roles and how subtle yet pervasive sexism manifests in the workplace. By sharing these stories, we aim to encourage listeners to seek out equal partnerships that empower their dreams and ambitions.

Ready to reclaim your voice and set professional boundaries? We provide practical techniques for navigating power dynamics and fostering a respectful, inclusive environment. Drawing wisdom from influential authors like Glennon Doyle and insights from "The Authority Gap," we reveal how curiosity, strategic questioning, and clear communication can empower women to speak up with confidence. We also delve into the importance of trusting your instincts, setting boundaries, and avoiding the fear of missing out. Tune in to learn how to elevate conversations on everyday sexism and champion equality in all aspects of life.

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Is patriarchy still holding you back in your career?
Have you ever wondered how women manage to shatter the glass ceiling in male-dominated industries? Join us on this episode of the Say it Sister podcast as Lucy shares the gritty details of her career in the energy sector, highlighting the obstacles women frequently encounter. Meanwhile, Karen provides a fascinating contrast with her experiences in PR and communications, where the leadership landscape remains male-heavy despite the majority of the workforce being female. Together, we dive into how our role models have shaped our journeys and the ongoing struggle to preserve our identities, including the personal decisions around changing or keeping our names after marriage.

We don't stop there. We explore the often ignored yet critical challenges women face both at work and in their personal lives—divorce, miscarriages, heavy periods, domestic abuse, menopause, and perimenopause. Through heartfelt stories, we underline the urgency of acknowledging these issues and fostering supportive environments. We also emphasize the transformative power of heart-centered workplace relationships, where intuition, empathy, and genuine human connection take precedence. Tune in as we advocate for a shift from traditional, rigid business interactions to a more compassionate and effective work culture.